How do we know when the person we are supposed to spend our lives with find us.  It is much easier than most people make it sound.  Unfortunately most of the time they are going about it the wrong way.  They think that they are in love with the person and this is great … but it is only a single step of the process.  Then they try to find out if they can see themselves spending their lives with that person.  This is where the mistake is commonly made.  The question should not be whether or not we can see ourselves with that person but rather can we live without them?  The person that we are supposed to spend our lives with is the person that finishes the parts of us that are undone.  Without that person we can never truly be completed.  They are the other half of us.  Please remember these simple words when you look for that someone special.  Look not for the one you can see yourself with but rather for the one that you could not be you without.